Today’s Candor

Ep. 8: Overcoming Overthinking: Embracing Your Purpose

Welcome to episode eight of Today's Candor with your host, Barika. In this episode, we delve into understanding your purpose and recognizing why you're called to do something special. Barika starts with an inspiring quote by Nicaila from Side Hustle Pro, emphasizing that everything you want is on the other side of overthinking.
Barika shares personal experiences of overcoming self-doubt and taking action to launch her podcast. She reflects on the common human tendency to place more faith in external factors, like jobs, than in ourselves. This episode encourages listeners to bet on themselves, take risks, and pursue their true calling.
Join us as we explore how identifying and acting on your purpose can lead to personal fulfillment and peace. Tune in for motivational insights and practical advice on how to stop overthinking and start living your dream.
Stay connected with Barika on Instagram at Today's Candor and follow the podcast on all major platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, and Podbean. Until next time, stay safe and stay candid.

Ep. 7: Real Relationships Entail Growth, Forgiveness & Communication

Welcome to Episode Seven of Today's Candor. I'm your host, Barika. Thank you so much, as always, for taking the time to tune in.In this episode, I'll be discussing the reality of lasting relationships—what we don't like to talk about or hear. Many younger generations believe relationships are always on the up and up, but that's far from the truth.I was inspired by a post from starseed_999 on Instagram, which highlighted that real relationships involve a lot of growth and forgiveness. Accepting your partner's imperfections and working through ups and downs is crucial.This episode isn't about accepting disrespect or being taken for granted. Instead, it's about understanding that relationships come with both good and bad times. We'll explore why we fight for everything else in our lives but often neglect to fight for our relationships.From the importance of communication and self-awareness to differentiating between flaws and deal-breakers, this episode covers it all. Join me as we delve into the complexities of love and relationships, and learn how to navigate them effectively.Thank you for tuning in. Please continue to follow, like, and share the podcast. It's available on all major platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Pandora. Connect with me on Instagram at @todayscandor and let me know any topics you'd like to hear my perspective on.Until next time, stay safe and stay candid.

Ep. 6: Are Your Relationships Contributing to Your Growth?

Welcome to episode six of Today's Candor, hosted by Barika. In this episode, we delve into the importance of surrounding yourself with individuals committed to growth. Barika revisits themes from episode three, focusing on embracing your authentic self and the impact of your social circle on your personal development.

Barika encourages listeners to evaluate their close relationships, including friends, family, co-workers, and significant others. She highlights timeless sayings like "you are the company you keep" and "birds of a feather flock together," emphasizing the influence of those around us on our habits and mindset.

Listeners are prompted to reflect on their social circles and assess whether these connections contribute to or hinder their growth. Barika introduces the concept of viewing relationships like a bank account, where positive interactions are deposits and negative ones are withdrawals.

The episode also explores the difficult but necessary process of outgrowing certain relationships and the importance of seeking out connections that support your journey toward self-improvement. Barika shares her personal experiences and offers practical advice on finding and maintaining these valuable relationships.

Join Barika as she navigates the complexities of personal growth and the critical role our social circles play in our development. Stay candid and connected with Today's Candor!

Ep. 5: Healing While Progressing

Welcome to episode five of Today's Candor with your host, Barika. In this insightful episode, Barika delves into the art of decision-making during your healing journey. She emphasizes the importance of continuing to live and make choices that benefit you, even when you are not fully healed.
Barika shares her personal story of overcoming the misconception that there is a perfect time to act. She highlights how change and progress are integral parts of the healing process. By sharing experiences and taking action, you not only heal but also help others who might be going through similar situations.
Join Barika as she explores how stepping out of your comfort zone and making better decisions can aid in healing. She also discusses the creation of her podcast, the challenges she faced, and how it has contributed to her healing journey.
Don't miss this episode packed with valuable insights and practical advice on balancing healing with living your best life. Tune in and stay candid!

Ep 4: Truly Be in Love: Focus Less on Traditions

Welcome to episode four of Today's Candor, hosted by Barika. In this episode, Barika delves into the profound topic of falling in love and truly being in love with your person. She explores the importance of building a deep connection and bond in a relationship, rather than being fixated on traditional milestones like marriage. Barika shares a poignant story about an encounter with an older gentleman, which sparks a discussion on why happiness and mutual respect in a relationship should take precedence over societal expectations. She emphasizes that the true essence of love goes beyond the act of getting married and is rooted in genuine connection, support, and understanding between partners. Through personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, Barika encourages listeners to focus on what truly matters in a relationship. She highlights the significance of communication, shared values, and being there for each other through life's ups and downs. This episode is a reminder that love is not defined by a ring or a title but by the depth of the bond shared between two people. Join Barika as she candidly discusses her past experiences and current relationship, offering valuable insights on how to nurture and cherish the connection with your person. Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on love and relationships, and to understand why being happy and in sync with your partner is what truly matters.

Ep. 3: Embrace Your Authentic Self: No Need to Fit In

Welcome to the third episode of "Today's Candor" with your host, Barika. In this enlightening episode, Barika delves into the powerful concept of not dimming your personality or individuality to fit in.
Barika starts by clarifying the difference between dimming oneself to fit in and working on personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of embracing your unique talents and skills, whether in the workplace or personal life, and questions why anyone would want to suppress their shining light to conform.
Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful insights, Barika highlights the pitfalls of trying to fit into spaces where you don't belong. She encourages listeners to embrace their individuality, work on personal growth, and avoid the negative energy of cliques and unprofessional environments.
Join Barika as she inspires you to trust your instincts, stand firm in your uniqueness, and recognize that some people are meant to remind you of the importance of evolving. This episode is a powerful reminder to stay true to yourself and shine brightly in every aspect of life.
Stay connected with Barika on Instagram at @todayscandor and follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, and other major platforms. Until next time, stay safe and stay candid!

Ep. 2: The Power of Moving in Silence: Achieving Your Goals with Focus & Discipline

Welcome to the second episode of Today's Candor. I'm your host, Barika, and in this episode, I'll be discussing the concept of moving in silence. This episode will explore what it means to work towards your goals quietly and why this approach can be beneficial for maintaining focus and discipline.
We'll delve into why moving in silence is important and how it can help you stay on your path without the distractions of external opinions. I'll share my personal experiences and offer practical advice on how to implement this concept into your life, ensuring that you protect your goals and maintain your motivation.
Whether you're aiming for a long-term goal or a short-term milestone, this episode will provide valuable insights into how to keep your journey private and sacred. Join me as we navigate the challenges of staying focused and disciplined in a world full of distractions.
Thank you for tuning in, and don't forget to follow, like, and share. Stay safe and stay candid!

Ep. 1: Intro to Today’s Candor

Why I created this podcast, how I created the name, topics of discussion to expect and how to connect with me.